Talking about people's life standard and perspective, and also some questions then comments around us that often we hear from the others.


Just wondering about why people (not all)'re commonly questioning to the others which actually it's just related to their standard as if every person has same standard and life perspective to them (a thing that actually isn't a standard which can be applied to all, but I don't really know why and how... they love to think that their standard can be generalized to all). Each person has different reaction eventho they don't tell us. Some of them maybe still ok, but some others might be offended or maybe sad or maybe more down, etc, we don't know.


Till now, I don't really understand about their question at all. They asked it because they really care of them and want to offer help or just a helpless small-talk ("basa basi").


No offense. Just wondering about dangerous questions spreading out and some common comments to the others that maybe will hurt their soul.


Maybe they'll say, "I'm asking it because I care". Yes.. I know, maybe you really care or maybe something else. But if you really care, please sincerely don't hurt them with a question based on your standard as if it's also their standard.
Maybe you can ask "how're you? are you happy?" or "how about life?" or "how about your plan?" or "what can I help you?" etc. It will be better.


Everyone is "a human" with their own standard and perspective and has a right to do anything that they want. Let them freely and happily tell about their current life, not to answer your un-creative dangerous question if it's just a small-talk. Because we don't really know about them and their condition inside and out, we don't really know about hard things that they already passed or still on process.


It's so beautiful to know and feel that they're happy (I mean "happy"), isn't it?
For me..I'll be happy to know that their soul's happy, I know that they've been struggling eventho I don't know what it is. If their soul's happy, it must be positive. I remember my father once said that God really love us, He gives pure soul, not bad soul for every human.


This reflection not only for them, but for me too because I'm also a human being, not kind person yet. Thank you. Wassalam. Namaste... :)

Earth,

15 July 2018

Kuusap mukaku dan seketika berajak dari tempatku tertidur malam lalu. Kulanjutkan perjalanan mengenal kotak kaca satu ini. 

Perjalanan berlanjut di tengah hamparan ilalang yang seperti tidak ada ujungnya. Ragaku mungkin bisa lelah tapi jiwaku sebaliknya. Bukannya menyerah namun tetap berjalan menyusurinya seperti ada kekuatan magis yang mendorongku berjalan, terus berjalan. Ada kekuatan magis yang membisikkan ke telingaku bahwa ada sesuatu dibalik hamparan ini, hamparan ilalang; pintu masuk. Ini hanyalah pintu masuk, selimut yang lembut dan damai. Seorang seperti mengirimkan sebuah pesan itu padaku bahwa ada banyak hal yang harus kutemukan dibaliknya.

Entah berapa langkah. Ajaibnya tidak ada tekanan, kesedihan dan kemarahan yang muncul oleh sebab tak kunjung ini berujung, bahkan di depanku pun hanyalah cakrawala yang sama yang seperti tiada ujung. Aku dengan sukarelanya tetap berjalan. Menikmati dan menghargai kedamaian yang ingin ditunjukkan padang ilalang ini tanpa mengusiknya dengan keresahan dan kemarahan. Aku mengikutinya. 

Bukan. 

Dia membawaku dengan tenang.

Langkahku masih berlanjut. Satu, dua, tiga, empat, lima, ........ satu juta tiga ratus enam puluh sembilan ribu tiga ratus delapan belas langkah.

Aku berhenti. Mataku mendadak kabur. Pandanganku putih, seperti kabut yang mendadak muncul melingkupi, menutupi pandanganku dari arah depan. Dia menembusku dengan lembut.

Hangat. Mataku terpejam; dan kubuka kembali.

Aku terdiam. 

Pemandangan mendadak tergantikan oleh yang lain. 

"Selamat datang, ayo ikut, akan kutunjukkan sesuatu", teriaknya dengan penuh keceriaan.

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